By Lesa Macpherson
The Halloween decorations have been put away and Christmas lights are showing up all over town. It’s officially the “Most Wonderful Time of the Year”. We certainly hope this Christmas is a special one for everyone.
One of the best aspects of Christmas is the time families spend together with their loved ones.
Often, however, we may notice that our cherished older family members are feeling isolated or perhaps not acting independently as much as they’d like to. Of course, more family involvement is often required in these circumstances. This could be a “wake up call” for further family involvement and possible in-home care. It can also be a time or reflection on whether current accommodation is suitable, and whether a change is desirable.
Decisions around change can be quite sensitive to reflect on and not easily made. Over time there is usually a recognition that the house seems bigger, the maintenance bears a larger cost, or even the lack of community and communication is becoming burdensome. Maybe time has come to consider moving into a Retirement Village, or even quality Aged Care to enjoy an improved lifestyle.
A decision to move into a Retirement Village is best done as a whole of family decision, with the involvement of the senior persons, as well as their supportive children (themselves often in their 50s or more), and trusted loved ones. Often it is the children who first see that “Mum and Dad”/” Nanny and Pa” are only just managing, and wonder if a change from the home to a Retirement Village may be timely, and beneficial.
Once decisions are made to investigate options it’s time to focus on a “downsizing” of accommodation. The outcome is usually an “upsizing” of community involvement and lifestyle through a Retirement Village. We have seen many clients so invigorated by new friendships, lots of engaging activities and a range of facilities like a pool, gym, men’s shed, sewing clubs, musical events, IT support, and sports options.https://www.brisbaneelderlaw.com.au/retirement-village-contracts/
It definitely is a move from Downsizing to Upsizing. In fact, some in the industry call it “Right sizing”.
A move into a Retirement Village is a significant legal decision as well, as the terms of Retirement Village contracts are complex, lengthy, and onerous. It is essential that the elderly persons, and their family, understand the ramifications of what they are signing, and what it means to them down the track. Generalist advice isn’t good enough. Also, we strongly encourage using a Financial Advisor.
Brisbane Elder Law are experts in the area of Retirement Village and Aged Care contracts. Contact them on 1800961622 or visit www.brisbanelederlaw.com.au
We have extensive information on our site, including the 24 things one should look for in selecting a Retirement Village.
