BY LESA MACPHERSON
The Christmas decorations are packed up and the New Year has been celebrated…. We really hope it is a good one for you and your loved ones.
Many of us have gathered together during the holiday period and enjoyed the company of our beloved family members. However, sometimes, there can be worrying changes we can’t unsee easily. These can be changes that spark conversations about lifestyle changes.
It is important to get any changes to our elder’s lifestyle just right. “Bespoke” is a word that is used a lot these days, but it has real meaning when applied to choices for our lifestyles in our later years and as our elders age.
In the discussions with older family members, or perhaps even reflecting oneself, when considering a change, it would help the decision making to ask:
- Are you a people person who loves the company of others and would thrive in a bright and engaging community with lots to offer?
- Do you want to continue to travel, and have your home easily secured and maintained while you’re away?
- Do you have beloved grandchildren? What facilities are available to share with them in the retirement living option you choose?
- Are you a person who has wonderful memories of beach holidays; loved surfing and beach walks – would you consider a move to a beachside area an exciting option?
- If you love nature – how will you reflect that within the community in which you live?
On a practical level, remember to think ahead about the availability of higher-level aged care facilities nearby. These are the qualities of aged care we want to look forward to in our old age:
- A desire to know who we are.
- Quality individualised care.
- Respect and kindness.
- Time to listen to our stories and precious memories.
- Having the time to do things we love.
We all have a story, and precious memories. We are all individuals.
We need to remember who we are and let our dreams for our future years be informed by our essence.
Brisbane Elder Law can help you during your retirement years and beyond. Phone them on 1800 328 952.
Their website www.brisbaneelderlaw.com.au sets out many matters you should consider when making the decision to choose a retirement living option.
